So with this post, I thought of sharing some hard-learned lessons so that you can re-evaluate yourself:

How to Live more and Worry less…

1. Learn to relax at work.
2. Do the very best you can.
3. Put a genuine enthusiasm into your work.
4. Remember that unfair criticism is often a compliment in disguise.
5. Keep a uncluttered table, except those relating to the immediate problem. Remember: “A clear table is a clear mind”
6. When a problem arises, solve it then and there if you have all the facts necessary to make a sound decision.
7. Whenever needed, organize, supervise, and deputize.
8. Prioritize and do things in the order of their importance.
9. Find who you are and be yourself. Remember, there is no one else on earth like you.
10. Count your blessings – not your troubles.
11. Reach for the stars! If you fail at this, then at least you can fallback on the clouds.

How to Win Friends and Influence People

1. Try your very best not to criticize, condemn, or complain.
2. Whenever deserved give, honest and sincere appreciation.
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.
4. Take a genuine interest in other people.
5. Make the other person feel important – sincerely.
6. Show respect for the other person’s opinions by first listening to what they have to say. Never say, “You’re wrong.”
7. Be friendly in all your communications.
8. Let the other person feel that the idea is theirs.
9. Submit to the nobler motives.
10. Never point out people’s mistakes in a crowd, do it indirectly or privately. They will admire you for it.
11. Admit and talk about your mistakes before criticizing the other person.
12. Ask instead of giving orders.
13. Let the other person save face.

There have been several rumors of plans to give a face lift to Facebook but what I experienced leaves face lifts far behind and places FB on a whole new level. Facebook has not only set a new standard but exceeded all my expectations of what social networking site can become in such a short time span.

The wide layout and additional tabs have made the content area a lot more user-friendly and made my profile a whole lot easier to manage with less scrolling.

Several interesting facts:

* Can add new tabs to include any new areas that I might want within easy access
* Edit text/icons are available for any section of the profile
* Loads a lot faster than the previous version
* A lot less scrolling to get to the required sections (e.g. Funwall, Testimonials, etc) – now they are available under Boxes

All-in-all, I really like this new face of the future and looking forward to more.

The Question

Have you ever wanted to tap into design talent around the world and get something designed without incurring absurdly exorbant costs? Or are you a designer that wants to get paid decently for what you do? Then 99designs is the place to visit…

The Reach

There are over 15,000 talented designers from around the world at your disposal that design everything from logo designs, business cards or web sites.

There is good new for designers as well, prize money up for grabs by designers: $54,309

How it Works

Step 1: Create your Design Brief Few simple questions form your design brief. A design brief is just a summary of what you need designed. It costs USD$39 to post your brief on 99designs.com

Step 2: Set Your Budget How much you’re willing to pay the winning designer to purchase their design. This is called the prize. Prize amounts generally range from $50 to $500 depending on the type of design you require.

Step 3: Work with the Designers Once your design brief has been posted to 99designs.com, designers from around the globe will submit design concepts to compete for your prize. It’s your job to rate the designs and provide feedback to help the designers deliver what you want.

Step 4: Choose Your Favorite Design At the completion of the design contest (which is a maximum of 7 days) you will choose a winning design and pay the designer the prize amount. The designer will send you their completed design along with copyright to the original art work.

That’s all there is to it. Take a look at some of the design contests currently running and see why 99designs is the best choice for your next design project.

“The WorldWide Telescope is a powerful tool for science and education that makes it possible for everyone to explore the universe,” said Bill Gates, Microsoft’s chairman, in a statement.

The program allows users to travel the galaxy on their own or take guided tours of destinations out-space developed by astronomers and academics. It also provides a number of different telescopes and easy switching between different light wavelengths.

Here is a closer look at the system requirements:
2GHz or faster processor
2GB of RAM
1-10GB of free disk space
Graphics card with 128 MB RAM or 256 VRAM
Windows XP Service Pack 2 or Windows Vista
Net connection
Macs must run Windows OS

Ironically, they can make a piece of software that can go to the moon but can’t seem to fix their own operating systems like XP or Vista.

Atleast we can be glad that we don’t have to billionaires or book a ticket on the next commercial shuttle out of orbit to experience all this.

Google launched their own version called Sky sometime back too which also comes with an add-on for Google Earth.

Check them all out and let me know what you think right here…

Introducing Twiddla!

Twiddla is a free, real-time online collaboration tool. Just click and go: no plug-ins, downloads, or firewall voodoo. It’s online when you are. Mark up websites, graphics and photos; brainstorm on a blank canvas; meet with your virtual team easily and instantly… all in real time, all online. All you need is a computer with an internet connection and a web browser. They do the rest.

Messaging
Twiddla is a free, real-time online collaboration tool. Its beauty is in its simplicity and accessibility: no plug-ins or downloads, no need to work around complex firewalls, no advanced scheduling. It’s available 24/7 and the only requirement is a computer with an internet connection and a web browser. It’s browser-agnostic, user friendly, and free.

Users can:
* mark up websites, graphics and photos
* brainstorm on a blank canvas
* meet virtually, easily and instantly
* chat with other users
* talk with other users live

There are even separate Twiddla buttons that you can place on your browser and your site. After using it for a while, I was so addicted that now I don’t do anything without it. Give it a spin and share your experience with many others.

Team WhiteBoarding with Twiddla

Although they started in June 2007, the official launch was on the 4th of July 2007 when the site got Digg’d. By September they announced that they had successfully integrated WHT with BuiltWith.

They have also included two nifty toys in the tools section for anyone that wants to have this great site within easy access within your favorite browser. Their FAQ section answers some more questions most of you may have about this site.

Don’t just take my word for it, go have a look for yourself and leave a comment here.

Who Is Hosting This (opens in a new window)

After my 6-month probation period was over, the Webmaster who was there left the company for a better position and I was promoted to the post of Webmaster and put in-charge of the day-to-day web development activities . Over the next few months, I was tasked with training the 4 university interns with the inner workings of building a website, where to host the files and the standards to follow in the process.

During this time we worked on a lot of websites and portals for various clients. One of the stars of the time was when we made a one-stop portal called “LankaWorld”. Although its no longer active today, it was making headlines in months where we hoped it would take years.

After serving at MegadynamiX for over 3 and half years, I left the company to join Confifi Management Services on the 12th of August 2003 as their Group Webmaster, taking with me some good lessons and whole lot of experience. Confifi Group was a hotels and resorts management organisation based in Sri Lanka. Although most would think of this switch as career suicide, I thought of it more like a challenge. As expected, I was faced with a lot of challenges, frustration and reluctance by my fellow employees to embrace the ever evolving web technology since most of them had little or no exposure to Information Technology back then.

I worked my way through each problem, eventually leaving Confifi on 25th of April 2005 to join OpenWorld after having served for 1 year and 7 months, during which time I learned a lot about the inner workings of hotel chains, customer management and public relations.

OpenWorld was one of the best places to work, I was given a pre-warning though that I would not learn anything new but the pay was extremely good so I took up the challenge to try something different since now I had the best of both world under my belt.

A UK-based IT solutions provider for the global travel and hospitality industry, with branches worldwide. OpenWorld served the likes of InterContinentals, Raffles, Dorchester’s and many more hotel chains. I was recruited to service the Raffles and Swissotel Hotel chains for a greater part of my time and it proved rewarding for everyone, since my contact at Raffles was very impressed with the way things were being handled.

After serving at OpenWorld for over 2 years, one fine day the CEO of OpenWorld dropped a bomb on everyone saying that the company was running at a loss and that he had no choice but to close down the company on a global scale. Although we knew that this was not possible since the company was making millions, we all started to look for jobs.

At the peak of my career I was frustrated and angry, I promised myself that I would never let this happen to be again. Now I was in financial trouble as well since I had got married only 3 months back. So I looked around for another job but in fact my skills were now out-dated and out of style. Eventually, I found a job through some good recommendations of my ex-colleagues at OpenWorld. TravelByte Technologies also proved to be a short career when they closed down 3 months later.

By this time, another friend of mine who had gone to Dubai over a year back mentioned that there was a position with the company that she was working for, as a Web Developer to build a tourism, business and recruitment consultancy portal. After a few months of negotiating, I was on my way to Dubai to start my life fresh without making the same mistakes all over again. With the help of some of the best people I ever had the privilege of working with, including my ex-colleague from OpenWorld; we launched the portal.

Six months later, I was dragged into the same pit all over again. I was once more tricked into believing that I could come back to Dubai in two weeks when I came to Sri Lanka in November 2007 for a short holiday.

Although it was inevitable that they would not need us once we had completed the portal, giving people the benefit of the doubt is what we should always do. Anyways, I am now in Sri Lanka trying my best to overcome my past mistakes and get my life and my web development career back on track with an outlook to a prosperous future.

Lessons Learned:

1) Never ever trust people that offer you the world
2) Always trust your instincts
3) Make as much money as you can when you are young (never tell your boss that you are NOT interested in money)
4) Save as much money as you can, because you never know when you will need it next
5) Never give up on yourself or your dreams
6) Always Think Positive!
7) Be aggressive about what you want in life and never settle for anything less than your worth

Do you have a story that you would like to share? Please feel free to drop me a line…

When it is time to re-connect with your professional contacts from the past, LinkedIn is worthy place to start.

I log into FB and several of my other important sites on a daily basis before I start my day. I love the fact that everything on the home page shows up for easy access but sometimes I wish there were less to look at.

Some of the FB applications I might add today would be removed permanently in a few days time simply because they sent me too many notifications or I didn’t like the color of the background in sync with my mood on that day. As of this post, I managed to remove over 50% of the applications I had. I hope to keep the rest until such time I get bored and start removing them as well.

One of my favorite FB applications though happen to be Nations, its about building your own Nation bit-by-bit while resolving issues that come from time-to-time from your citizens.

To visit my Facebook Profile, click here.

When we apply this theory to a website, what do we get? Traffic from a number of curious, interested and sometimes aimlessly browsing surfers.

To spice up a situation, if there was some kind of a scandal then the traffic that starts to generate becomes so huge that sometimes the server that is hosting that site becomes clogged up or goes down unless of-course it has a lot of bandwidth to support this traffic.

The Scandal
Anything juicy, noisy and irresistible will definitely have an effect. Most times even if you talk about your neighbor sleeping with your other neighbor will have this effect. The best results are achieved if these neighbors are singers, movie stars or just plain old famous.

Traffic magic!
Provided you have a decent number of readers and those readers you are bound to get some very good results.